I can’t wait either!! Haha <3
I can’t wait either!! Haha <3
I’m working on the new site as I post this! I’m so excited! <3
Thanks girl! You too!
You pick your topics and write letters about each one. Example,
Topic: When your sad
Write a bunch of compliments or whatever to try and cheer the person up.
Write “Open when you’re sad” on the envelope :)
It’s really pretty simple!
I’ve known of a lot of players myself who have been suspended for things they’ve posted online. I don’t think people realize how closely they’re watched sometimes! :)
After a few messages regarding the topic of players (or boyfriends) and their social media, I thought I’d do a quick post on it!
When it comes to social media, many players would prefer to keep their relationship offline. I’ve noticed that a lot of you seem to get really frustrated with this, which I understand why, but I also think there are some girls out there that don’t quite understand that when it comes to Instagram, Facebook & especially Twitter - what a player posts online is directly visible to the rest of the world. IE - schools, other teams, leagues, etc.
Many players prefer to keep their social media professional - and by professional I mean not posting “I love you baby I love you too” crap, or anything else that may seem inappropriate. It’s not always that he’s just uncomfortable with letting the world know you’re dating, or that he’s embarrassed by you, or anything else that may be offensive. It’s just that he’s trying to keep his media clean & professional. When it comes to schools and leagues they’re quite serious about how their players display themselves and their social media is watched to a degree.
Now I’m not saying every player thinks this way, or that I agree with the fact that displaying your relationship online is seen as inappropriate. But for those players who are that serious about their hockey careers, it’s an understandable reason to keep certain things on the DL.
Okay, one thing at a time! For now, just support him and see what happens. After you find out if he’s staying home or not, worry about things then! There’s no point in worrying now, seeing as you don’t know what will happen. If he makes it, as much as being away sucks, it’ll be great for him! If he doesn’t, he’ll be home & will play for his NAHL team again. Sure he will be disappointed, but I’m sure if that happens you’ll be able to show him the positive!
Let me know what happens, and take a deep breath! Haha. Everything will be okay,
Awe, I get what you mean. Do you do it a lot? I mean once in a while is fine he should have no problem with that.. it’s not kissing and telling if you’re dating.. silly boy. I would explain to him that you don’t understand where he’s coming from because of the fact that you’re dating and thats what people do when they date. Yes, you should want people to know you’re dating. It’s not supposed to be hidden! Posting photos isn’t a bad thing, and it’s certainly not a PSA. Try talking to him again and explain yourself further and explain how it makes you feel, and how you don’t understand why your relationship should be hidden from other people. Good luck! If he doesn’t understand I’m not sure what to tell you girl! I would just do it anyways and he would have to deal with it.. it’s a little weird that he want’s to keep everything on the DL in my opinion!
That’s awesome! If you have a blog you should message me off anon! :)
Well, It matters when you’re talking about skill & schools, but talking about your status as a girlfriend, definitely not! & really that’s awesome! My guy plays Atlantic D1. What about yours?